I love the look of these, but I've owned a few and I keep having the same problem: The front is too heavy, due to the beading, embroidery, etc. I either have to secure the tank to the back of my bra (meaning weird contortionist-type moves and safety pins) or I have to separate the bib necklace from the shirt, which depending on the manner it is attached can be tricky. It's too much work for what, in my opinion isn't that nice of a shirt. I'd say skip it and spend your money on a nicer necklace and a better tank.